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Claiming that women can get sex just by clicking their fingers sets horny women up for a lifetime of disappointment, and gives men a reputation they can never possibly live up to. But science says so!

If you're into odd sexual studies, like me, you'll probably be thinking of the Russell Clark experiment. Inat Florida State University, students directed by Clark a social psychology professorapproached people of the opposite sex at random and all asked the same question: "I have been noticing you around campus.

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Why is this example used? This experiment has been repeated a few times since the original.

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But that's not particularly surprising. The experiment and the bar example both offer a very specific type of sex. The type of sex that, rightly or wrongly, is associated with male desire and fantasy.

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Whether this is fantasy is biologically led, socially implanted, or simply a massive and mistaken generalisation on our part, it is nevertheless accepted as true, and provides the foundation on which the bar example is built.

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